Intro

The point of this blog is to act as a journal for me (husband) to record current and past experiences in my cuckold marriage (in which my wife sleeps with other men) as well as to explore some of the personal psychology that being in this type of relationship has on me.  I am not pretending to be some expert in sexual psychology nor will I be posting any pseudo-scientific claims on how cuckold relationships work.  Anyone reading this blog that is interested in or is currently in a cuckold relationship will not find a vast amount of information on all the ins and outs and different levels of cuckolding that exists.  In fact some people may not even consider our marriage a true cuckold relationship.  In fact the term cuckold has really broadened from its original meaning and so I really only use this term for a lack of something better to call it.

The reason I use the term cuckold is because it is a more familiar one word term to describe our marriage where I not only am aware of my wife sleeping with other men but I encourage it.  This probably actually makes me a Wittol but I have really only recently come across this word and I don't know if it is a commonly used term.  In any case I hate both words but it condenses a paragraph of explanation down to one word so I will go with it until something better comes along.

I have known for a long time, long before I heard the word cuckold, that I had the desire for my wife to have relationships with other men.  Of course I heard of swinging and wife swapping etc. but I have never had a desire to be with other women.  The thought of my wife receiving pleasure from another man however has always be very arousing for me.  I guess this is somewhat selfish on my part and I think initially my wife felt this way as well, which I will expand on later, but she definitely no longer feels this way.  I'm sure if you are here reading this then you are not in the portion of the population that feels this is disturbing, gross, weird, etc.   I am willing to bet however that more men than are willing to admit have had fantasies to some degree that would be considered cuckold fantasies. 

Finally I guess the reason I decided to write this blog, other than my own personal therapy, was because I wanted something that was not over the top or threatening to couples looking to explore cuckolding further.  Trust me as a man I enjoy looking at other blogs and websites that are explicit in this theme and who knows maybe my wife would enjoy them too but I guess I want to make a resource that I would like to have had when I sat down with my wife and explained my thoughts - something that I could have said "see this is what I am talking about".